With great diagnostic advice from JugHead the issue was found and a theory devised. Newly installed after-market fuel pump draws more amperage than the stock 15amp fuel relay can handle, thus disconnecting the fuel pump at startup. Solution installed a 30amp relay and it seems problem is solved. I guess along with considerable drama and cash, and 2 towing experiences. I did find a failing fuel pump, a Hall sensor ready to short out and a new friend in South Africa.
I truly believe this is now the most sorted R1100s that is running today...and I don't trust it a mile from the house.
Very cool!
Thanks for the follow up.
OM