statdawg
High & Dry
From the Ghost of Christmas past.
Long past ?
No our past.
As far as the forum goes it is the property of a Private Club, the largest of its kind in the world. The rules and regulations are set by itself and processes have been approved by we the members. This club is like that of a private cooperation or a private school in being the rules are set to reflect its mission statement. If the workings of the MOA wanted us to wear a uniform to rallies, or raise our hands to gain permission to speak then we must comply since we accepted the rules of memberships. With that said I can say the posting guidelines are simple. Post as if your grandmother is reading this, if she swears then post as if children are looking over your shoulder ( old guidelines ). Is that as clear as little Johnny to wear a uniform to class or raise his hand to speak in turn ? Really some of us by our background being military or cooperate we had to deal with rules just like them or we couldn't afford a BMW. I get it. Does anyone else ? If you do NOT like the private charm experience go over to the public school system such as Adv Rider........but watch your lunch money, your dippled knot tie and expect your snobby BMW to be moved around in the parking lot.
Long past ?
No our past.
Yes, we're all adults here. Or at least I hope so...
But I don't think it's a big brother issue: nor even a nanny issue. The now-defunct thread was more like a big soap bubble that, try as it might, couldn't belie the limitations of it's own surface tension. There were some great points there and some good fun, but some of the stuff, the juvenalia f'rinstance, expanded to the point of discomfort, bruised feelings and personal attacks.
Like Snoone wisely pointed out "The forum is very good at determining what is appropriate or not."
It's an interesting form of democracy.
And we all still really like each other. (Or at least I hope so...)
Many a time, I've stood around a campfire with friends and we've sparred in just such a fashion. I can imagine a participant picking up a burning stick and proclaiming, "I'll take you all on, who's next!" It's all in good fun, but in the written form, the words take on new meanings, the situation is painted in each members' mind. For some, the picture may be humorous -- for others sinister.
The rub is that our members are not accustomed to a Jo-Mama'ish thread. People take things personally, members may get hurt. I doubt that is any posters' intent but it happens.
In person communication is 55% body language, 35% voice infelction and tone, 10% words. A good deal is lost in translating campfire conversation to the forum.
The internet is a fine line to walk. Also what happens is like M1ka points out, one can not read if someone is offended.
I live in a fairly conservative area, work in a fairly conservative company, I would by no means say I am conservative. So I try to be polite when in doubt and think about the other people who might be around. Not politically correct, but polite.
The key is that I remember that what is benign to me might be offensive to others; conversely what is benign to others is offensive to me.
As far as the forum goes it is the property of a Private Club, the largest of its kind in the world. The rules and regulations are set by itself and processes have been approved by we the members. This club is like that of a private cooperation or a private school in being the rules are set to reflect its mission statement. If the workings of the MOA wanted us to wear a uniform to rallies, or raise our hands to gain permission to speak then we must comply since we accepted the rules of memberships. With that said I can say the posting guidelines are simple. Post as if your grandmother is reading this, if she swears then post as if children are looking over your shoulder ( old guidelines ). Is that as clear as little Johnny to wear a uniform to class or raise his hand to speak in turn ? Really some of us by our background being military or cooperate we had to deal with rules just like them or we couldn't afford a BMW. I get it. Does anyone else ? If you do NOT like the private charm experience go over to the public school system such as Adv Rider........but watch your lunch money, your dippled knot tie and expect your snobby BMW to be moved around in the parking lot.