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The phrase used to the etiquette of discussing issues on the campfire forum was best described as speak only things that you would speak to grandma, and in a tone befitting a conversation with grandma.
With all due respect, who's grandma? Because with MY Grandma (s), one would best choose words that certainly were words that lack conclusions and void of controversy, because once started down the road of controversial conversation, feelings were most likely going to be flamed, and the good time we were having was over. Too bad, but at least we could go in the other room and speak in hushed tones, and grandma was none the wiser! We had a room at the forum, but it got taken away. Now the old creeps into the new. Helmet discussion cant be had, yet our ON editor speaks of it freely in this column., and the public finds the subject very timely indeed.
But here at Grnadma's house, we ought not to speak too loud, because the potential to start a personal fight is just too much work, and not worth it. hmmmm, am I the only one that finds this attitude wrong?
What made me think of this is the re-read of the controversial helmet thread. Banned to the Dog house, offensive flames removed, and the flame thrower certainly advised to curtail personal attacks. I agree, the personal attacks killed a thread which I personally saw the thread had tons of merit, was befitting of a motorcycle forum, and as stated a few times in the thread, many were LEARNING the reasoning behind why to wear a helmet, and the reasons many if us full time helmet wearers chose none the less to spurn legislation mandating helmet wearing.
It was a learning thread, it was a thread not new to you lifers in the BMWMOA, but new to those new members we as a group are most certainly trying to attract into our club. To limit in the future membership threads to the nice things in the world, yawwnnn...is boring! I think we must keep up with the news of the day, but do it in a way where the discussion remnains respectful and civil. I for one think it can be done in future conversations that have controversy as a middle name!
With all due respect, if you think I'm wrong, feel free to rip me up here, but please do it with respect!
Do we offer potential new "lurking" members only "grandma conversation" or do we offer them real life issues of interest? Along with the post count increasing and more importantly "view” count shot up like a Coloradoan who’s boot just stepped on a rattle snake! Many people out there were reading the thread with interest, and many were liking what was being written. But from the comments I have heard, the Mods as a group decided it was a subject out of whack; which admittedly was a well thought out consensus decision on the part of the Mods.
A BIG thank you Moderators for all the constant attention to the forum, thank you for your volunteer hours on line keeping those of us who are self modulation challenged individuals in line; we all are glad you are here.
Speaking to the membership at large, if you don't have something to say that is pertinent to the conversation, if your words are said that are personal attacks, please take it elsewhere, and allow the rest of us to discuss subjects slightly above the radar of Grandma.
The helmet thread was killed even though it was a prime area of conversation that day. The thread was a hot topic in November's Editor remarks, and was informational, important, and had merit, but was dealt the death blow by those of us that can't stay away from personal attacks. Please don't do that again!
Thanks for letting me rant here...
Dale
With all due respect, who's grandma? Because with MY Grandma (s), one would best choose words that certainly were words that lack conclusions and void of controversy, because once started down the road of controversial conversation, feelings were most likely going to be flamed, and the good time we were having was over. Too bad, but at least we could go in the other room and speak in hushed tones, and grandma was none the wiser! We had a room at the forum, but it got taken away. Now the old creeps into the new. Helmet discussion cant be had, yet our ON editor speaks of it freely in this column., and the public finds the subject very timely indeed.
But here at Grnadma's house, we ought not to speak too loud, because the potential to start a personal fight is just too much work, and not worth it. hmmmm, am I the only one that finds this attitude wrong?
What made me think of this is the re-read of the controversial helmet thread. Banned to the Dog house, offensive flames removed, and the flame thrower certainly advised to curtail personal attacks. I agree, the personal attacks killed a thread which I personally saw the thread had tons of merit, was befitting of a motorcycle forum, and as stated a few times in the thread, many were LEARNING the reasoning behind why to wear a helmet, and the reasons many if us full time helmet wearers chose none the less to spurn legislation mandating helmet wearing.
It was a learning thread, it was a thread not new to you lifers in the BMWMOA, but new to those new members we as a group are most certainly trying to attract into our club. To limit in the future membership threads to the nice things in the world, yawwnnn...is boring! I think we must keep up with the news of the day, but do it in a way where the discussion remnains respectful and civil. I for one think it can be done in future conversations that have controversy as a middle name!
With all due respect, if you think I'm wrong, feel free to rip me up here, but please do it with respect!
Do we offer potential new "lurking" members only "grandma conversation" or do we offer them real life issues of interest? Along with the post count increasing and more importantly "view” count shot up like a Coloradoan who’s boot just stepped on a rattle snake! Many people out there were reading the thread with interest, and many were liking what was being written. But from the comments I have heard, the Mods as a group decided it was a subject out of whack; which admittedly was a well thought out consensus decision on the part of the Mods.
A BIG thank you Moderators for all the constant attention to the forum, thank you for your volunteer hours on line keeping those of us who are self modulation challenged individuals in line; we all are glad you are here.
Speaking to the membership at large, if you don't have something to say that is pertinent to the conversation, if your words are said that are personal attacks, please take it elsewhere, and allow the rest of us to discuss subjects slightly above the radar of Grandma.
The helmet thread was killed even though it was a prime area of conversation that day. The thread was a hot topic in November's Editor remarks, and was informational, important, and had merit, but was dealt the death blow by those of us that can't stay away from personal attacks. Please don't do that again!
Thanks for letting me rant here...
Dale