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To answer the original question, the bitching and moaning is really tiresome. It was even mentioned at a club outing we had recently, and a number of us indicated we spend less time here as a result.
Actually - I noted just the opposite. The "whiners" (we can define them as so-called or not) do not have their real names in a SIG. They may have it in the user profile, but an almost constant is - it's lacking from their sigs.I think you'd note that many if not most of the so-called whiners have their real names either in their profiles or signatures. It hasn't deterred them.
That's been my experience also - and based on being on-line since before Arpanet times. Dialup BBS's were a good learning place for what is now "forums" and "Yahoo/Google groups" - much the same idea, and the same social interactions. I ran several and learned a lot about network social interaction by doing it. I applied what I learned from that experience, and from just being "on-line" for so long when I started my Yahoo group.That's essentially my experience in 15 years of running bulletin boards, but it does happen once in a great while.
Moderation is essential to preserve decorum in any large group, be it Yahoo Groups, old style Usenet, or membership groups like this one.
A very short list of rules works best and no personal attacks should be at the top of the list.
Actually - I noted just the opposite. The "whiners" (we can define them as so-called or not) do not have their real names in a SIG. They may have it in the user profile, but an almost constant is - it's lacking from their sigs.
I have been a member for 18 months, and I still haven't got a handle on why so many people gripe and whine if someone expresses an opinion contrary to theirs.
How can the misuse of the word "of" in an article provoke 4 or 5 pages of admonishment to the author? (I thought the article was good and I'm too stupid to catch the errors.)
I read other motorcycle forums for ideas and no one else even comes close to the cutting down of people as this forum. The value of forums is the exchange of ideas and experiences. I don't agree with all, but occasionally I do use some ideas. Because I reject an idea, doesn't mean they are bad, just not right for me.
I would have figured that the joke thread would have been more popular, but it seems very few people have a sense of humor.
Ralph Sims
I don't see enough value in a person's real name to overcome their right to a modicum of privacy. I haven't found that real names make people any more or less reasonable on-line. Further, there are some people that frequent these kinds of forums that have a very real need to maintain a small amount of anonymity.
I think you'd note that many if not most of the so-called whiners have their real names either in their profiles or signatures. It hasn't deterred them.
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I believe the behavior is innate to the person. I have participated, along with people that act like jerks, on other boards that require your real name in some way. The behavior of the jerks did not vary greatly form board to board.
Any difference in behavior I have witnessed is much more the result of the social norms of the board and a modicum of policing of agreed on rules than the fact a personÔÇÖs real name is required.
The nicest compliment that I get from folks is that I'm just like my forum personna. Well, yeah...
I'm pretty much me as well. I've been told I'm "warmer" in person, but I think I'm a big sap everywhere.
i'm tired of people bitching and whining about the volunteers, board members, and paid staff in unfounded ways. it seems that every so often we get folks hinting or accusing these people of being corrupt, or lazy, or being pawns of BMW.
i think this is part of why people do not volunteer for election or other jobs in our club. i think they think, "i can volunteer my time for the club and take a lot of crap from a bunch of keyboard warriors? it's not worth it."
what say you? do you think our volunteers, elected officials, and office staff should be treated with respect? or is it ok if people use innuendo to kick them around?
I think respect is something earned, not just because they were voted in.
If a volunteer sucks, and I complain about it, is that whining, or is it a valid point?
Are we to assume everyone voted in or volunteering automatically earns respect , even if they are terrible at what they do? I don't think it is ok to use innuendo to kick somebody around, nor do I think it is ok to belittle members here for any reason. For my part, I treat everyone here as they have treated me. It seems to work out ok for me. I am pretty much the same person in real life, except you can only see my perpetual smile in person.
I don't recall saying the payment of $32 gave them any "rights" - and certainly not to information about me I don't want them to know. I can't call the home-office and ask for contact information about a member (I know because I've been called by the office and asked if it was OK to give mine out..)We manage the site via the forum's database. Any and every member is in there as a login of their choosing and a member#. Every member. Just because somebody pays $32, they don't have a right to know who I am if I don't want them to.
Scott - this is a policy? Made by whom? The MOA Board? You? Just saying it's so doesn't make it so. Perhaps some people value civility over a false sense of anonymity or "privacy" (which is quite different than anonymity.) If it is "policy" - is it written anywhere that people can see it?The desire to force civility through the requirement of the inclusion of a "real name" isn't sufficient to overcome a person's right to a modicum of privacy.
No argument - who they are is going to be who they are - but using a "username" rather than their own name gives them a sense of anonymity - and the anonymity IMHO is to a large extent the enabling factor to attack other people. People assume since they can sign up on other similar forums with an anonymous username and blast away that the same anonymity exists here. Since it really doesn't - it might be a reasonable idea to make the lack of real anonymity very obvious by requiring real names to be used.Remember, while a person can seem to "hide" behind an invented name, there are no fake n00bs here. No one has multiple logins with which they can present different personalities. Who they are is going to be pretty much who they are.
That isn't what I said - I didn't say they whine because they didn't include their name in their sig - I said having no name in a sig enables attacks to a great extent.The whiners are whining because that's who they are, because that's part of the culture here and because we let them. They don't whine because they didn't include their name in their signature.
您抱怨!
PLEASE do not distort what I said to prove a point. I didn't say and never have said "full disclosure" - implying that I did is bogus and a distortion. And I would have hoped that could be avoided in this particular discussion.Is starting a thread whining about whining not just whining squared?
Don,
As has already been mentioned, to post here means you are a member. Non members are prohibited from posting. A list of the members "handles" is on the web site already and a complete list of members is in the club data base FOUO I believe. If you are going to require full disclosure in order to post perhaps we should also require that those who wish to post list their name, date of birth and SSN on a publicly viewed forum.
I'd be really curious how you feel having your name known in a restricted access forum adds to your potential identity theft vulnerability since that is part of what my real job is (besides other network administrative tasks..) I suggested before - if you want to know about me - GOOGLE me. My name can be found on search results going back 20+ years, and so far - no one has stolen my identity. You are much more at risk using your credit card at Bob's Stores than by posting your name on every newsgroup or forum you can find.Having a name listed just adds additional vulnerability in an age of rampant ID theft. On the other hand, unless you have access to the logs of members the name could be totally bogus as well.