Thanks for all the help everyone. We are supposed to leave on a trip on Sunday afternoon. This happened Tuesday. I called BMW Denver who is always extremely helpful, knowing that no one would probably have that part, and they didn't. They helpfully directed me to their competition, Foothills BMW, because they have a locator and could find me the part more quickly.
Foothills found the part, and it expedited, and it arrived in Denver today. Denver is an 8 hour round trip over several passes from here. I asked them to overnight it to me in Gunnison at about 11:15 this morning. The parts guy said he would take it over to Fedex personally in about 1/2 hour. By 11:52 I had a notice from Fedex that it is scheduled for delivery here tomorrow.
What great service from everyone involved.
I hadn't thought about the function of the channel in that spline shaft. I like the idea of using a little loctite and just snugging it on there and checking it a couple of times as we go along.
Looks like we will hit the road on schedule.